why is my ex ignoring me?

[rescueme]

basically,
he broke up with me because he felt I wasnt close enough to is new friends since we started uni, he didnt feel in love with me anymore etc (we were together just over ayear)... I accepted this, though obvs upset, we went on summer break for 3 months- barely had any contact - odd fb chat -we came back to uni (same course same uni , same circle of friends really though hes closer to them than I am), and he started off ok, he could be around me but still a bit off with me (not really talking very much) but now he cant even be in the same room as me, he goes out of his way to avoid me - even though i dont really go out of my way to be near him.
Hes blocked me on fb chat because I asked him via there if we could possibly meet up fpr a chat to see whee we stand...try and amke things better for us in the long run (next 4 years at uni) he basically refused. so I didnt push the subject, but sent him a polite message yesterday saying I'd like to talk- very short and to the point. This is the last direct contact I will hae with him - I know hes read it an ignoring it. I've troed to be friendly... hes on his own now
I just dont understand why he's the one ignoring me! surely it should be the otherway round?
thanks

[MerryH]

I guess he feels he needs to not be around you at all. It's understandable. It's hard to move past people if you have to be around them all the time. Please respect his decision to have nothing to do with you and leave him alone. It'll be best for both of you.

[NewStart]

If you're not going to get back together, it is actually kinder for him to ignore you. After some time has passed, and you have done some healing, you can assess whether there is the potential for friendship there. Be strong! You'll get through this.