My ex who still cares for me hasnt talked to me in about 2 weeks. At first it was because we needed space but then she found out i was hanging out with a girl who she knew liked me and she thinks im sleeping with her. She was crying the other day to one of my friends saying I was sleeping with this new girl and that shes over me for it. If i do get ahold of her how can i let her know i still love her, and that i havent done anything with any other girls without upsetting her. I really do love this girl and its killing me.
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31-10-05, 05:07 AM #1
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31-10-05, 05:58 AM #2
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just say
"i still love [you], and that i havent done anything with any other girls."
its up to her to believe it.I'm drowning in assholes.
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31-10-05, 06:44 AM #3
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Ditto.
But: Why is she hanging out with a girl she thinks you're sleeping with? That seems a little odd.Speak less. Say more.
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31-10-05, 08:31 PM #4
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Its a different friend not the girl she thinks im hooking up with.
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Its been 2 weeks, should i try and call her up and leave a msg if she doesnt pick up or email her and hope she calls me? From what my friends have said is she was really mad on wednesday and crying. Is it too early to call or email her should i give it more time? I dont want her to move on to another guy thinking i did something i didnt do. Shes worth my time so anything would help.
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31-10-05, 09:14 PM #5
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I would call and leave a message - and also follow up with an email.
It's never "too early" to set things straight.
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31-10-05, 10:49 PM #6
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Originally Posted by independent
If i leave a message and say I havent hooked up with any girls, how can i say that in a less strange way. It just doesnt sound right.
Or is that all i can really do
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31-10-05, 11:16 PM #7
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Yeah I would be straight. Like: "I heard through friends that you think I've been hooking up with someone else. Just wanted to let you know that's not true, I still love you. Please call me - I'd love to talk"
Something like that. Then follow it up with an email and tell her you care about her - and whatever else needs to be said.
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31-10-05, 11:35 PM #8
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I agree with Independent, the only thing you can do is be honest and it is up to her to believe you or not but all you can do is be honest about it.
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
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01-11-05, 12:10 AM #9
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Yes and letting time pass will just leave her to make assumptions, and grieve the loss... not good if you want to reconcile with her.
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