I fell in love with a girl from another country who I met on holiday...

[tomvb]

Hello everybody and thanks for your time for reading this.
I'm Tom, 22 years old and I live in Belgium, so I'll try to do this in my best English.
This summer, I went on holiday in Italy for 10 days. (I'm a few days back home right now)
The second day when I was there, I met a girl and fell in love immediately. The rest of my days in Italy, we had a great time: Kissing, hugging, doing things together in the city and so on. Really perfect.

The strange thing is that I never felt like this way before. I had some relationships before but this girl is very special. When she left to her hometown Milan (Italy) I felt really melancholic and sad. And it's still the same right now. I just know she fits so good with me and she is a very special girl. Now the thing is we really love each other but I live in Belgium and she in Milan, which is about 900 km's away from each other.
I love her so much so I really want to do everything to keep this love going on. I want to take the plane to Milan 1-2 times in a month and when the love holds on I would propose to move to Italy. The girl is a frightened through the distance, because I can't see her a lot and she will cry when I leave every time.
Now my question to you all is, what should we do?

Thanks in advance for your time, really hope to get a helpfull response!

Kind regards,
Tom

[Boisdevie]

Do you want to try to have a long distance relationship?
Does she?
Then try it. BUT I do not think it will work. Most long distance relationships do not work. AND, can you really begin a long distance relationship when you do not really know each other? Do you have enough money to be able to see her regularly?
Bonne chance mon ami.

[toknow]

Move there if you feel strongly about her. You'll always wonder what if, if you don't.

[tomvb]

@Boisdevie I want to try a long distance relationship, if it's only on long term. I do not want to keep this long distance relationship up for about several years. I just want to do this in the first time to see if we really are made for each other. And when this is confirmed, I move to Italy or when the answer is no, I stay in Belgium off course. About the money, she's worth every penny. But I understand your feedback, and when thinking rationally, they are right remarks you make.