So I Set Up A Hidden Camera In My Girlfriends Apartment

**generalx** · 02-07-09, 02:07 AM

I guess i wanted to know what she and her friends generally talk about "I KNOW I KNOW WHAT I DID WAS MESSED UP" "LMAOOOO"
we've been dating for almost 3 yrs, we live together so she and her friends were discussing ME. and boy, oh boy, they keep pressuring her "Why are you not getting engaged etc" she's telling them she cannot wait any longer.

You know what one of her friends said? "Lets find you someone in Secret and when you're sure of it. DUMP ME" My Girlfriends response was "I really want this relationship to work, but if he doesn't want to get married i want him to leave"...

Her friend invited her to a party weekend and told her" Dress up real nice, get your hair done etc we'll take pictures and set up an account for you on a dating website...

Here friend said "do it in secret" and when you're sure the new relationship is going to work "then slowly let him go"...her response was "OKAY"........

I told her a few times i'm not ready to get married, at least not yet.

I'M 37 AND SHES 50 CAN ANYONE OFFER SOME ADVICE? PLEASE

**Yggdrasil** · 02-07-09, 02:09 AM

If your story is true.. dump her.

**LoveFish** · 02-07-09, 06:46 AM

Tough situation! You kinda played with fire on this one...

How long have your been together for? Why don't you want to get married? If she isn't what you want for a long term relationship then what is the problem? let her go.

If you love her then you have the intel from your intel gathering operation (however immoral) that says she wants the two of you to work. So knowing that take steps to keep her happy...

**Junket** · 02-07-09, 07:22 AM

I say f*ck a ho' on her bed.

**ecojeanne** · 02-07-09, 07:45 AM

lol this is curazzzy. anyway just coz she agreed with her friends doesn't mean she will do what they suggest. she likes you and wants it to work, for crissake you're so frikin typical, i bet you want to run, well run run run like the wind you typical insecure scaredy cat