I asked for me original thread about my issues to be removed, but hopefully those who contributed and know the story will contribute to this thread too.
For those who don't, I've been speaking to someone I shouldn't of been speaking to, and I've had coffee with that person a couple of times, I've kept it from my wife and now she's found out. Nothing was going on between me and that person, and I never wanted anything to go on either.
It's been almost two weeks now since she found out about the whole thing, and when we're together it's all she wants to talk about, literally all the time. I understand that we'll be talking about it almost every day at some point for a while, but is it normal for us at this time to still be going over it this much? It's taking over any time we have together to the point that I'm pretty sure neither of us enjoy being with each other. I sometimes try and keep out of the room for a while, because I know when I walk into the room the conversation will start again.
We're supposed to be going for a meal at the weekend, but I'm not sure I want to go as I know we're just going to talk about what I did.