contraversy and affairs

[chelsee]

what would you do if you caught your S/O cheating on you? Do you think it's fair to cheat back? I know two wrongs don"t make a right but honestly, what would you do?

[blue]

I would leave him. I wouldnt stay with him and then go cheat. That would just create more drama.

[chelsee]

the reason i asked this question is because my friends say they would do it back. but I agree with you blue it just adds more drama.

[gsgann22]

if you a girl I would say sleep with me that'll show him.....LOL, just kidding, well if ya want, no jk, unless...


Seriously, sleeping to get back is not a good ideal, esp if you are the girl it hurts you more than them, because women tend to get emotional invlolved. but either way not a good ideal unless you are shooting for a spot on Jerry Springer.

[chelsee]

yes gsgann22, I'm a girl thanks for the offer LOL

[misombra]

i would leave him and/or seriously injure him.

[chelsee]

seriously injure him how? like put him out of commission?

[gsgann22]

yes gsgann22, I'm a girl thanks for the offer LOL

well in that case the best way to get him back is sleeping with me repeatly........(rereads your post sees the "LOL")....uh umm just kidding. . ..ha

[gsgann22]

seriously injure him how? like put him out of commission?

seriously not a good idea if you hurt him to bad you will get in trouble and if you don't hurt him enough he may hurt you badly. It is fine to think about hurting him but not a good ideal to put into practice.

[chelsee]

gsgann22, seriously i wouldn't hurt anyone but the thought has entered my mind a few times, just for good laughs... but i'm kidding.. seriously

[Illusional]

i seen this is a movie once, it starred kari wurher in it. well when the guy caught his wife cheating on him with another man, he tied the man up to a chair and had sex with his wife in front on this man. he made the man watch the entire thing. now that is using your imagination.

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[BlackRose]

I'd confront him about it and make him grovel. Then I would kick him to the curb once I was satisfied with his begging. Once a cheater, always a cheater. They just don't know how to help themselves.

[bluesummer]

There's no point sleeping with someone else for revenge. That's just sinking to their level. I had an incident once where by my bf got drunk and shoved me....
I slapped him, threw his ass out of the house and held all of his crap hostage. Every time he came to the apartment (we lived together) I'd tell him I was gonna call the cops because he was harrassing me. He had to live in his car with only one change of clothes for a week. Can you only imagine what I'd do if he cheated?