Your opinion on talking to multiple females as I talk to you...?

[QuanSai]

Well, I believe in gaining as many "potentials" (as I call them) as I can. In a nutshell, I talk to a lot of girls at once before pursing one. The numbers can grow to roughly 10 to 15 at a time. What I do is get as many of them as I can to be attracted to me, then I choose one.

Is what I'm doing morally correct in your opinion? Of course, there is nothing correct or incorrect here because morals are completely subjective. However, I'd like to know where a lot of women stand on my method. I'm not the only guy who does this.

Thanks.

[Bumble_bee]

as long as you can tell the lisa's from the mary-jane's

but I would imagine the ladies you are 'accumilating' would have a bit of a problem, might even call you a playa'

[QuanSai]

as long as you can tell the lisa's from the mary-jane's

but I would imagine the ladies you are 'accumilating' would have a bit of a problem, might even call you a playa'

I don't think I should call myself a player. I'm merely using very simple patterns in probability here. I'm sure I can describe it mathematically somehow. My method seems logical. I think a lot of girls do it too.

[CocoChanel]

If I am not in a committed relationship with you I could care less how many women you are dating. You better not complain on how men I'm dating either.

[QuanSai]

If I am not in a committed relationship with you I could care less how many women you are dating. You better not complain on how men I'm dating either.

So, the same applies for even passive flirtation in your opinion, right?

[CocoChanel]

Yes, it does. I just have a respect thing with me.

I expect for you not flirt with other women in my presence.

For you to not get another girls number while we are spending time together.

If I see you in public while you are with another one of your chicks... don't try to play me... example: if I say hello or wave don't act like you don't know me.

That's about it!

[Bumble_bee]

I'm sure I can describe it mathematically somehow.

No, please don't

My method seems logical.

is it working?

I think a lot of girls do it too.

huh?......

[CocoChanel]

Girl I don't know.

[qwertz]

to be honest i think it totally depends...are you just talking to these gorls or have you been on dates with them?
I wouldnt mind one bit if i was just talking to you on the phone whatever but if id been on more than one date with you then i would expect you to not go on dates with other girls...if you did then your not the sort of guy id wanna date.

[QuanSai]

huh?......

What's wrong?

Girl I don't know.

I don't see where the confusion is coming from.

[Bumble_bee]

how do you get 10-15 chicks to be attracted to you (simultaneously ?)

you can't just coolly mention this and not let on your technique.....(some of us ned it ya)

you said chicks use this 'method' too, what method I ask....

[QuanSai]

how do you get 10-15 chicks to be attracted to you (simultaneously ?)

you can't just coolly mention this and not let on your technique.....(some of us ned it ya)

you said chicks use this 'method' too, what method I ask....

You treat all of them sort of like you'd treat a child in early school. You find out what each appeals to by a series of very general questions, and you make observations based on the answers you get. Based on their attitude toward very small tastes of a bit of anything within rational bounds, you capitalize on each set of attraction. Sometimes it's complicated, and sometimes it isn't. I'm doing nothing innovative. Everything I'm doing can be done through very simple means.

Do you agree?

[Sanctuary]

Well, I believe in gaining as many "potentials" (as I call them) as I can. In a nutshell, I talk to a lot of girls at once before pursing one. The numbers can grow to roughly 10 to 15 at a time. What I do is get as many of them as I can to be attracted to me, then I choose one.

Is what I'm doing morally correct in your opinion? Of course, there is nothing correct or incorrect here because morals are completely subjective. However, I'd like to know where a lot of women stand on my method. I'm not the only guy who does this.

Thanks.

I'm a guy but I'm gonna answer your question anyway.

As you've implied, morals are irrelevant due to their subjectivity. Therefore there is nothing 'wrong' with what you're doing.

You say your plan is to attract multiple girls and pick one in the end. I see nothing wrong with what you're doing so long as those girls realize what you're doing. If they don't, your deceptiveness can backfire in the end in the form of rumors.

And I am very interested in seeing you describe this mathematically.

[Sanctuary]

Logic governs too much of what you do man.

Check out Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman - it will change the way you view the world.

At the very least read the reviews on Amazon.

I love logic too but it cannot replace experience and you seem to be lacking an emotional kind of logic (yes that is possible).

[all alone]

Logic governs too much of what you do man.

Check out Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman - it will change the way you view the world.

At the very least read the reviews on Amazon.

I love logic too but it cannot replace experience and you seem to be lacking an emotional kind of logic (yes that is possible).

ditto his view, you seem to be distancing yourself oddly from the 'human' element and approaching this like some sort of algebraic equation.. not what has to be done.