Girl Advice

[disturbed_23]

Hey LoveForum,

Recently a girl and I confessed our feelings for each other, but we didnt go any further into the dating. Since then our talk about the subject hasn't been very strong,

I have my own ideas but i would like to know what you guys would suggest that i do to get her back into the subject? I would like to get this relationship into the boyfriend girlfriend stage, and i dont want to wait too long. So what are some good ways to bring up the subject again? And once there, what you guys recommend i do to ask her out?

Thanks everyone.

[letkhu]

Had you tried courting her? What did she say about that? If you don`t try it yet, try!

[disturbed_23]

What exactly do you mean by that?

[Junket]

How old are you both?

[Tug]

Your age is extremely important in this matter. Anyway, you want to find out what she's thinking ask her!! If you've been dating for awhile and want a monogamous relationship let her know how you feel. The difference between a good relationship and a great one is communication. If she's unsure of what she wants dont push it, give her the time and space she needs.

Best of luck

[disturbed_23]

I am 18, she is 16. Almost 17.

I will probably just ask her, but what did you guys mean by courting?

[disturbed_23]

So now i have a date set up for sunday night, but there are a number of things going wrong.

Firstly, her dad is in town and he is staying with her and her two brothers in a hotel for the weekend, until sunday at noon. She hates her dad, and he puts her in a very bad mood. She doesnt want to be talked to at all, like she doesnt talk on the phone at all and txting is a no go for her.

Next the movie is not in town like it was scheduled to be and we have to pick a different movie which i cant do if she isnt talking right now.

And lastly she has been going through some school drama in which is making her even more mad.

I dont want to break off this date, but it seems as if it wont be a very good one if she is just getting over all of the mayhem. What would you guys suggest i do to either help her get back into a good mood or make the date go well? Im really worried about it.