So, I met a guy the other night. He was working as a bouncer at the club I was promoting at (so it wasn't your typical meet a guy at the bar scene). He was talking my ear off and asked me some weird questions like if i would ever be a stripper, if I did coke, but this was after he and I were talking about what would happen in the case of a nuclear war. I kind of assumed he was asking me these things because he was telling stories of people he knew of.
Also told me I seemed really wholesome, and that he didn't get any bad vibes off of me.
He didn't ask for my number, but I gave it to him, that way he could call me if he were so inclined.
Later that evening, like two hours after, I got a text from him saying we should hang out sometime but was not specific.
I responded the next day, but heard nothing back. So I re-sent the same text the next day. Still nothing...
So... is it my move? I kind of made the last one, or what? I'm not big on chasing guys...
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01-05-09, 02:48 PM #1
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Should I pursue?
Sometimes I worry about being a success in a mediocre world
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But women chasing guys is hot. Seriously, it's a nice change of pace.
Well there's 2 things possible here...either he's been really busy, or he's not interested. I suggest moving on.
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No, it is NOT your move. Friends don't let friends chase bouncers, Roller. I am your friend. Listen to me: Do NOT contact him again.
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03-05-09, 07:16 AM #4
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HAHAHAHAHA alright :-)
Originally Posted by Gigabitch
Sometimes I worry about being a success in a mediocre world
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Giga is right. I second that. His move...and be a bit standoffish when/if he makes it.
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Let him be the boy. You expressed your interest - the ball is in his court. If he didn't contact you, he is either a giant wuss or he isn't interested. Either way, not a good choice for you.
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Listen to vashti. She knows stuff. Originally Posted by vashti
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