Guy acting strange

[Gwk]

I am new to this forum but nevertheless could use some advice. I met a guy online several months ago. He lives in another state. When he first emailed me I did not reply and he emailed me a few weeks later very angry I shrugged him off. Several days later, he emails again acting really nice as if he never sent the angry email earlier. I then decided to give him a chance and we quickly began texting daily as well as talked on the phone. Usually he would contact me before I had a chance to text/call first. About two months after we started talking, we met in person while I was vacationing close to his home. We spent the day together and had a good time. We talked during the remainder of my vacation but after I got back things went completely silent. I figured maybe he was no longer interested and left him alone. Two weeks later was his birthday so I thought I would text him and wish him a Happy Birthday. That seemed to start things up again and he and I have been texting/calling several days a week. He had asked me to go and visit him and I agreed. He wanted me to go at the end of this month. Everything seemed to be going smoothly until today. I texted him earlier in the day and he did not respond until 2 hours later saying he was spending the day relaxing. We texted twice more and he went silent. So I figured he was busy and told him I would catch him later. No response. Three hours later I text if he is ok...no response. I tried calling him and the call went straight to voicemail. I got the feeling he blocked my number. I called his phone from another number and his number rang. Then I thought "okay" he must have blocked me and I decided perhaps it is time to move on. Four hours later he answers my "are you okay?" with yeah, are you? I told him I was fine and I tried calling earlier and it went straight to voicemail. No answer. He is obviously blowing me off and I guess it is time to move on. I obviously will not visit him now and I will not contact him but I am wondering what would make a guy act like this??

[HeartIsAching]

Control.

He makes you crazy and want his attention. Then he gives it or removes it to make you dance to his tune.

[smackie9]

It's possible he has more than one interest....that's why he seems so "busy". Nevertheless he is a weirdo, and is playing games....stop wasting your time.

[Gwk]

You are right, he is playing games and I do not have time for that. He can play games with someone else, it's just so weird.