guy friends

[macnicol]

so i have been dating my gf for 8 months now and she still has a couple guy friends but on a rare ocassion does she ever hang out with them. she has been friends with all of them longer than i have known her. my question is. is it ok for her to call them love? as in she will say thanks love or see you later love?

I feel like it takes away from the effects of when she tells me she loves me or calls me love and its so easy for her to throw that word around?

[LiLtokoyo]

I think its ok. If it something that she has been saying to them before she met you, then its all fine. Remember, Guys and girls view friendship differently. If she says these guys are just her friends, then dont worry. There is a big difference from calling someone love and being in love with them. Take a step back my friend, all is fine.

[Raze]

I think its ok. If it something that she has been saying to them before she met you, then its all fine. Remember, Guys and girls view friendship differently. If she says these guys are just her friends, then dont worry. There is a big difference from calling someone love and being in love with them. Take a step back my friend, all is fine.

Agreed, but it would still bother me. If it bothers you, tell her that it does. Talk it out. Best of luck!

[Enigmos]

agreed with both previous posts. i will say to my guy friends handsome! darling! doesn't mean i want to shag them. however, if my mate told me these made him uncomfortable, we can talk about what is ok with him. i am willing to make concessions for my mate, but i can't read his mind.

unless you share with her your feelings, she won't know that something is even bothering you at all.