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Thread: Oh great, now what the h*ll is this?

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    Oh great, now what the h*ll is this?

    I'm sure no one remembers me, but 3 months or so ago I was dumped without warning for an Asian girl 12 years younger then I...you were all such a comfort, this was the only place I had to go.

    I moved out a few weeks later and have been on my own and doing pretty good. He has been planning his wedding with the new girl, who moved in the day after I moved out, a few weeks after they met.

    And now he send me this email...about how sorry he is that he hasn't spoken to me and it's not because he doesn't want to, but because he REALLY wants to and how he misses me so badly he can't do any of the things or go any of the places we used to go. That was last Thursday. And since then, nothing.

    He still has some of my stuff and I've been pinging him every couple weeks about when I can get it. I thought I'd be getting my stuff, but now he's not responding again...presumedly because "he wants to so badly". Crap.

    What, he just wants to mess with me? Am I doing just a little to well on my own for his comfort? Does he just want to make sure he's still got me on the line, because well, lets face it, he did tell me when he kicked me to the curb that I was the best he had in bed (and that's the freakin' truth, by god) but there are other things that make up for that...and what, now they don't seem to make up for it so good, a few months down the line....

    sheesh. Men suck.

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    Interesting...this thread reminds me that I have to go get myself a young little Asian girl....

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    Quote Originally Posted by moonlight

    sheesh. Men suck.
    I agree with this post.

    I remember you moonlight - how is your kid doing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by shh!
    I agree with this post.

    I remember you moonlight - how is your kid doing?


    Hi Shh!

    He's doing great. I live very close to family now so he can see his cousin whenever he wants, and he loves that. I also live close enough to his dad that he can go back and forth as he likes, so it was a busy summer

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    That's not nice. He should have more respect for your feelings, sorry that that happened, Moonlight.

    Glad you're son is well. It makes up for a lot when your kids are happy, for sure.

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    Moonlight,

    That sucks, now he is back and probeing and pokeing to see if you are still alive, to see if he can still light you up. Stay away from the creep. Get the cops to escort you to his house and get your stuff, then the hell with him. You will find someone alot better, someone that isn't that shady to get up and leave for a younger woman. Is this the father of your child?

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    I would definetly keep stay away from him, but if he doesn't contact you back in regards to your stuff. I would maybe grab a friend and drop by his place and just grab your stuff so you can be done with him. You don't need to talk to him for any other reason, he is a jerk and you should just go on about your way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by moonlight
    sheesh. Men suck.
    I think you made a spelling mistake there. "Man suck".

    Most of us are cute and cuddly

    ...Now go out there and kick him in the nuts!!!
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
    Ask the wind for the way
    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
    Accept all as it is and do not blame
    God or the Devil
    ~Born to Live - Mavrik~

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    Good advice here!

    (and laughing at the post above hahahahaha)

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