commitment issues

[sleepy]

anyone else have them? how do you deal with them? i just ignore mine until i wake up one morning and feel like i can't breathe.

[King Zarathu]

i just ignore mine until i wake up one morning and feel like i can't breath

that is NOT healthy. you need to take care of them immediately! right on the spot!

oh, man..

i myself don't have commitment issues, I am very good with commitment. dealing with them can be a pain in the ass sometimes though, I had an ex that had them. *sigh* i don't know how to fix it, but take a look at the thread i posted not too long ago

[sleepy]

mk, thanks luv i'll check it out!

i've done my research; i know my issue; i know it is hurting people; i'm unclear what to do now. help? please?

[King Zarathu]

you need to find somebody that you are truly in love with and STAY with that person.. i don't think you would have a commitment issue if you had found the right person for you at the right time.

[sleepy]

thank you i'm a good person, most of the time. i'm just very uncertain when it comes to romance; i feel like i have to defend myself all the time.