I told you before and I'll tell you again. As long as you keep blowing him he will keep you around and he will treat you like shit. Stop seeing him and if he calls you tell him you don't want him calling you because you want a relationship and he does not. You want two different things. You're currently setting yourself up to be abused and misused and you totally disrespect YOURSELF with your actions.
I know he is probably not ready but he should at least tell me where we're at and how we should handle this situation.
he's told you already.. you just refuse to hear him. Stop letting him play you and fk with your mind. Zero hanging with him until or if he tells you straight up lets be EXCLUSIVE BF/GF.
I know the answer is that he is not ready for a relationship and he keeps saying I shouldn't get involved with him because he is perverted and all. I am lost. He is sending me signals and asking if I was looking for a boyfriend.
He's just curious because he doesn't want you honking on him and another guy at the same time because he doesn't want an STI. Or.. whatever why... it doesn't mean he is hinting at wanting to be your boyfriend. Fk the hints. They mean nothing except to keep you hooked so he keeps getting a blow job.
I mean he been asking me that hella times which is confusing me, feels like he is giving me a hint, yet he can't decide.
If he wanted you, he would never keep telling you that he doesn't want a relationship and that he's bad news.
He will take your blow jobs though if you keep offering to give them without commitment. Stop being dumb and naive, you've asked this question enough times already.
Grow up little girlie before you ruin your life and get used to being disrespected and abused.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion