About a year ago, I met a guy at a party. Due to... lots of confusion, mixed signals, drama, etc, we danced around dating, but never become an official couple, and in November just settled down to being friends.
I haven't seen him since January, but we've texted a little bit. He's texted me to hang out about once a month, and then usually had something come up. This last occasion was in late April... so about 3 weeks ago.
I felt a little spontaneous today, so I decided to call him to see if he wanted to hang out. A girl answered the phone, and asked who I was. I told her, and asked to speak with him. She refused... and started going off about how because I'd rejected him, she was lucky enough to now be dating him. She said very quickly how awesome and considerate and what a great f*ck he is, and how I'm a heartless b*tch. She finished by saying I should never call him again, and hung up.
I didn't know he was dating anyone, but I'm pleased if he is. He's the one who has been messaging me to hang out. And I thought we've just been platonic friends.
I'm... stunned, is the word. And kinda worried that my friend is dating a total, controlling psycho. How in the world should I handle this, since she is obviously monitoring his phone? I sent him an email but after 2 days he hasn't responded yet. What the heck was all that?!