I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years..it just wasn't the one...That is not my problem however. I am a teacher and for the last year I became closer and closer to another female teacher. At first it was harmless flirting that then turned into hanging out with each other every happy hour, texting each other non-stop, and finally admitting we were really into each other at the end of the school year. There is only one problem she has been married for the last 8 years to a man from Argentina. He is very nice guy but very different from her..where as we are like the same person..we are constantly saying the same things and having the best time together. At first it was just light neck kissing and heavy petting and that was it but we would hang out every night. She since has told her husband that she has feelings for me and that they should separate. Last week we went to a bday party and made out all over nyc....One hour she will say that she is getting a separation and will give me a shot with her...a few hours later she could change her mind and I have know idea what is being said while they are still living together...she say's she just needs time...I have no idea what to do....my mind is not in a good state right now....