Hi i am adele and i just joined today!
i need some advice , i have been living with my boyfriend now for nearly 2 and half years , we live away from family which are 4 hours away from us! but recently he has said he is not happy , he loves me but he feels that we are not happy in the house or that we have a laugh or do things togetherto have fun, i just dont understand what he is going on about i know its good to have a laugh but neither of us have lived with anyone before so we dont know the rules etc , when you live with someone is it meant to be fun and games every night and have a laugh??
we dont argue that much but we recently have and all this stuff was brought up...
we talked and i asked if he would want to just end the relationship he said he loves me loads and wants to work it out and that we have to work on these problems ie get along and just generally have a laugh etc and make things better
also we dont have sex that often and its just because we cant really be bothered we truly love each other to bits and are attracted to each other but just sometimes we cant be assed and usually have sex maybe once or twice a month!
i just dont know where to start or what to do , i love him so much and dont want to lose him at all but i just dont know how everyone else does it , what am i doing wrong??
i would appreciate any help and advice please i am at my wits end with worry over this!
del xx