When I was single I'd date guys like you. I can't stand that pretty boy type, at all. Big turn off for me and a lot of other girls I know. Like others mentioned, look past the Barbie perfect Abercrombie girl for a real girl who will enjoy your hobbies and qualities. You don't have to scrape the bottom of the barrel but typically a girl who's getting mani/pedi's every week isn't going to be a girl who wants to get her hands dirty. You can find cute girls in the hole in the wall bars or have a friend introduce you, network.
So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?