So as the title says, I'm gonna be going to a party this coming weekend that my ex will most likely be at with one of her friends. I'm 23, she's 24.
All of these friends are mutual and I really don't want to pass up the party, but the only thing is I have a feeling my ex might hook up with someone there or something. We just recently broke up, I still have kind of strong feelings for her and it would probably break my heart.
The thing is, I feel kind of selfish thinking this way, that's why I'm here.
How can I get over this stupid obsession with my ex? I want to learn to stay stoic about the whole thing if it did happen and not give too much of a shit about it because I can't prevent it. But I also don't want to look like some pathetic cuckold around my friends or something. I doubt my friends would really make a move, but they can be horn-balls. How do you all suggest I go about this?
In the end, I just want to have fun at this party without being paranoid about my ex the whole time and feeling humiliated if she hooked up with someone at the party. I'm sure there's been someone else in a similar situation that can give advice?