I recently just got dumped by my girlfriend of 4 years. Here is the story:
We had a pregnancy scare a little over a month ago. She was late on her period and we both were really scared as she is only 20 and in college and I am 22, about to graduate but do not have a job locked down yet. Anyways, she is about 5 days late on her period and we started having talks about "what if" and what not. This is where I told her: "I don't think you should have it". She didn't really react strongly to this and we went on. During the scare, I thought about our situation every night. I sort of had a change of view on the thing and knew I would support her 100% whatever she wanted to do. I was all about to tell her this if she was late on her next period. About 2 weeks later she starts her period and we are both relieved. However now she is very distant. We have had very little sexual contact due to our schedules and what not. She eventually tells me that she hasn't wanted to be physical with me because what I told her always comes into her mind and acts as a turn off. This is the first time I tell her I really spoke before I thought about things and she believes me even though I am sure it sounded like an act of desperation to save our sex life. Anyways, she said she can't see herself getting over this so she ended things with me.
I am truly in love with this girl and would love to be with her. I really thought we were going to be together forever, but it amazes me how something like this can turn things sour real fast. I guess my question is: Do you think this relationship is a lost cause? If not, what would you suggest inn getting her back? I know it will take some time and space since we have been together for a long time, is there anything else I can do to help my cause?