To All Married People out there

[Slyvia]

What is your situation. Please answer 1,2 or 3 depending on which statement represents the way you feel best. Be honest it should be interesting for all us!

1: I love and I am in love with my partner.

2: I love my partner but I am not in love.

3: I don't love my partner and I am not in love with my partner.

Please state your gender, age and how long you have been married for.

[Incognito]

I voted 2. I'm male and 27. I've been married 5.5 years. I love my wife in that I don't wish her to die a long painful death, but the love that was once there doesn't exist anyomore. We're more like room mates than a married couple. We still get along, and still laugh and joke, but the husband-wife connection there (and sex is non existant....haven't had sex in 2010 yet).

Note to Sylvia: The option "Please state your gender, age and how long you have been married for" should be removed since it is not truly an answer to your poll question. Unfortunately indireloaded already chose it, so I doubt she'll be able to choose another option unless you scrap this poll/thread and start another.

[IndiReloaded]

You aren't married are you Sylvia?

You are missing a category:

I love my spouse. Some days I am "in love" with him/her. Other days I want to bury them head-first in the backyard.

This^ IS the working definition of marriage, far as everyone I know whose been at it a while thinks, anyway.