I feel like a piece of crap.

[Syph]

I was about to go on the first date I had ever been on and my possible partner pulled out because she met someone else.

What does this say about me?

I was completely myself and have been super positive for the whole week. Now I feel like I can't win.

[loudrims_inc]

so wait...so she cancelled on the last minute?

[Syph]

so wait...so she cancelled on the last minute?

The day before by text. I've accepted it, I just feel like I'll never find someone like her again. I had such amazing chemistry with her.

[loudrims_inc]

Yes u will...like they always say..."theres someone out there for everyone"

...in my case, even if she is 800miles away lol

U just have to keep looking...that girl doesnt know what she wants, shes probably a skank so dont sweat it to much...Dont let it get u down, use it as motivation. Thats what i do when something or someone gets me down...i use it as fuel for my fire. Now pick yourself up and keep looking for that perfect girl!

NOTE: she cancelled on u by "txt"...shes def a bitch!

[Gigabitch]

That sucks, Syph. I'm sure there's an upside to it, but you probably just want sympathy right now.

[Syph]

That sucks, Syph. I'm sure there's an upside to it, but you probably just want sympathy right now.

I want someone to be honest and tell me their mind.

I just feel like a fool after this. I just for a moment felt wanted and accepted.

[IndiReloaded]

Its not like you spent months on your dating proposal and lost the contract to a better company. She never dated you. How could she know anything about you?

All it says is that you were going to date some chick who has missed out on your awesomeness. Her loss.

[rotobat1234]

For what it's worth, I think most people have been whare you are. I have. I met this girl, we got on great, had a few dates, and then we slept together.It all happened over two weeks. The sex was great (or it seemed to be but read on!). But afterwards- like 20 minutes after sex - she said

"I like you ... but the physical chemistry is not there .. I do not feel like I want to rip your clothes off and that is what I want in my man".

Now I was gutted .. cos she was the one for me. Ticked every box. But at the end of the day, as much as I wanted her, what is the point of being with someone who does not want you. For me, being loved is as important as loving. It's a two way thing.

That said, I still felt like crap for weeks ... but my advice is, get back out there and find some you click with AND who clicks with you. There will be someone. Once you find her, you will forget about lost loves....

Good luck.

[Syph]

That said, I still felt like crap for weeks ... but my advice is, get back out there and find some you click with AND who clicks with you. There will be someone. Once you find her, you will forget about lost loves....

Good luck.

Sometimes I feel my standards are too high, but this one I thought was just right.

I'm after a good-looking girl who is empathic and has a spring in her step.

[MVPlaya]

The day before by text. I've accepted it, I just feel like I'll never find someone like her again. I had such amazing chemistry with her.

No you did not. You never even went out with her and she called off the date by text. Its quite possible that you were coming on too strong and she was looking for an excuse to break it off.


Look Syph, these things hurt, but at the end of the day, you can do one of two things:

You can sulk and moan and have a pity-fest by yourself about how life is unfair and women are just too blind to see that you're the right guy and you can be jaded for years.

Or you can take it as a learning experience, suck it up, try again with someone else, and move on.


Its really easy to give into self-loathing and pity, but it will get you nowhere in life and only perpetuate and worsen your misery.

Just keep trying, eventually you get better.

[girl68]

You should learn how to handle rejection better. It's going to happen, it's going to happen more than once, it's going to happen from multiple women. If you let one cancellation get you down in the dumps you have not a hope.

Get with it, she's one girl.

[Gigabitch]

I want someone to be honest and tell me their mind.

I just feel like a fool after this. I just for a moment felt wanted and accepted.

Okay, honestly I think you're lucky she didn't date you after hooking up with someone else. She showed good sense and good manners by canceling your date. This is ultimately a good thing.

There are over three billion women on the planet, Syph. She wasn't the only one you could be happy with.