Fear of other guys!!!

[okhair]

My Girlfriend these days is behind slimming up herself

I always have a fear of other guys.. I hate it when they stare at her.... and they comment dumb stuff... sometimes vulgar and I cant tolerate it....

I cant stop her from looking good!!! And I dont want to!!! Cos its for her good.... but what I shall I do from my side???

I need help!!!

[Kromat]

My Girlfriend these days is behind slimming up herself

I always have a fear of other guys.. I hate it when they stare at her....
and they comment dumb stuff... sometimes vulgar and I cant tolerate it....

I cant stop her from looking good!!! And I don't want to!!! Cos its
for her good.... but what I shall I do from my side???

I need help!!!

Just tell her that your there for her and don't
let other guys intimidate you to go with them.
It's common for people to stare, but don't get too
jealous of what other people think or else it
will drive you crazy, but make sure you both trust
each other enough where nothing will separate you.

P.S. You probably went after her for her looks
in the first place before getting to know her,
so this will be part of your life, and you'll have to accept it.
Don't go telling people to stop staring at her and then getting
into a fight, think positively and everythng will be ok.

[Down not Out]

Really you should smile a little inwardly, other people think your girl looks good, but she is not with other people she is with you. You will need to trust her, especially if you are often visited by the green-eyed monster. Jealousy is not an attractive characteristic and I don't think it has ever contributed positively to a happy relationship.

[squirrley]

Be proud and don't say anything to her about it. She'll start sensing some insecurities which you don't want! Feel good about it, she's doing it for herself. (and maybe some for you! Don't let those other goobers get to you, theyre just jealous and obnoxious.

[Asparagoose]

Be proud and don't say anything to her about it. She'll start sensing some insecurities which you don't want! Feel good about it, she's doing it for herself. (and maybe some for you! Don't let those other goobers get to you, theyre just jealous and obnoxious.

Yeah. There's no reason to be the jealous boyfriend. Be happy that she's taking care of herself. Don't let the other guys bother you, she is yours not theirs.

[Mish]

My Girlfriend these days is behind slimming up herself

I always have a fear of other guys.. I hate it when they stare at her.... and they comment dumb stuff... sometimes vulgar and I cant tolerate it....

I cant stop her from looking good!!! And I dont want to!!! Cos its for her good.... but what I shall I do from my side???

I need help!!!

Be grateful that she looks so good that she turns heads around. Compliment her on it, this is something you want to encourage.

Confront anyone who tries to intimidate her (especially anyone vulgar) to set the record straight.

And most important trust her. There's a reason why she's with you and noone else.

[Tone]

When you see guys staring too hard at her just do somethin to rub it in their face that she's alllll yours. If you have an attractive girlfriend, she's gonna get drooled over/complimented/hit on by other guys. Just comes w/ the territory.

[misombra]

...or you could just dump her for an ugly fat girl.

[Tone]

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
never make a pretty woman your wife
go for my personal point of view
get an ugly girl to marry you!

[lesa]

They key thing here is to have her want no other man. Give her a reason to stray and she will.

[Lipp]

Sexy =/= Beautiful.

If you'd find someone who is beautiful to you the risk is alot smaller, but if you go for someone who is sexy you have to accept that every guy and his dog will stare, as that is a shared perception.

...

Or maybe I'm just abnormal because I don't like sexy girls. I blame it on my swedish upbringing, years of sexy but shallow blondes has ruined me forever Go beauty go!

[1averagejoe]

I had that problem with my whore...excuse me, I mean ex.


Just kiss her on the lips, look over and smirk. Shuts them up quick.

[Junket]

I watched my girlfriend get hit on/asked to dance three times in one club, and we were only there for about 15 minutes!

I don't get defensive unless somebody is getting aggressive with her, I just chill and watch her reject them.

Puts a smile on my face when she grabs my hand to show who she's there with.