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    How Many Dates

    How many dates, do you usually have before you decide that your going to have a serious relationship? is there an average number, or does it just happen?

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    Traditionally, three is a good number to get a good idea of what the person is really like. Getting serious should go slowly, though. Serious, to me, leads to marriage.
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    There is no limit on how many dates you can have before making it official but it normally takes a few dates so that you can get to know the person more.

    You will know when the time is right. Jast go with the flow and let things naturally happen.

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    What do you consider "serious"? Is that the point when you'd be hurt if they were dating someone else? I don't know the exact timing, but generally it progresses as follows:

    casual dating
    exclusive dating
    serious relationship
    married

    Then of course, if you are bitter, you can add in the following:

    cheating
    divorce
    start from scratch

    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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