I'm in love with a sex worker...

[love-fool]

Please read below.

[love-fool]

Please read below.

[Junket]

I can tell you right now, that most people won't read this, and for your sake, you should at least include a very short summary of everything.

Short and to the point.

EDIT: I will tell you, after skimming through it, until one day, I confessed to her that I fell in love with her,, that that was one of your biggest mistakes.

[Junket]

I hate double posting but...

She's an independent woman, but I still live with my parents, I haven't finished college yet, and I don't have a real job, it's not like I could just fly to where she lives, and be with her, since I can't ask my parents for that much money to buy a plane ticket, I am not rich, I'm a middle class person, besides, I don't even know were she lives, I don't even haver her phone number, even though that I've asked her for it before, but for some reason, she won't give it to me, what if there was a true emergency, and I couldn't give her an instant message wherever she is?..

That's all you needed to say.

To which I answer.

Too bad, forget about her, if she wanted to give you her number she would've, if she wanted to maintain contact with you she would've.

You're not her knight in shining armor, though I know you want to be, whether you're consciously aware of this or not. You have that mentality, and it's reflected through your actions.

Obviously you've put so much into this relationship you can't conceive on letting it go, in spite of the fact it's not healthy for you.

Damn man, how many of these characters have we gotten so far?

Sorry to say, but you're in the same position of many before you.

Yes, and that includes the whore.

[love-fool]

I can tell you right now, that most people won't read this, and for your sake, you should at least include a very short summary of everything.

Short and to the point.

EDIT: I will tell you, after skimming through it, until one day, I confessed to her that I fell in love with her,, that that was one of your biggest mistakes.

Okay, thanks for your comment, it's just that, well... I just thought that so people could understand where I am now, and why I feel so heart broken, everything needed to come to the light, that's all...

But I'll see if I can squeeze everything up in one short summary, I dunno, but I'll try...

[love-fool]

I hate double posting but...



That's all you needed to say.

To which I answer.

Too bad, forget about her, if she wanted to give you her number she would've, if she wanted to maintain contact with you she would've.

You're not her knight in shining armor, though I know you want to be, whether you're consciously aware of this or not. You have that mentality, and it's reflected through your actions.

Obviously you've put so much into this relationship you can't conceive on letting it go, in spite of the fact it's not healthy for you.

Damn man, how many of these characters have we gotten so far?

Sorry to say, but you're in the same position of many before you.

Yes, and that includes the whore.

Okay... umm...

Well, the thing is that since I've gotten this far, I just can't quit now, I won't turn my tail and run, not now... maybe not ever, even if I seem to come across as a "knight in shining armour", I truly and honestly care for her, even knowing that I might as well never get into a serious relationship with her, she has told me that we will never be more than just friends, and I am cool with that.

And I would really appreciate it if you didn't call her a "whore", thank you...

[vashti]

I didn't read the whole thing, but I think you need to remind your self continuously that prostitues are PAID to make you feel this way. That is how they make a living.

I think you should forget all about her and move on.

[love-fool]

I didn't read the whole thing, but I think you need to remind your self continuously that prostitues are PAID to make you feel this way. That is how they make a living.

I think you should forget all about her and move on.

Well, for starters, I've NEVER been one of her clients, and I don't see her as a prostitute even if she is, I see her as my friend, and one who needs help, you would understand me if you read the whole thing...

[Gribble]

Look, I'm a journalism student, and I can tell you we regularly take complex stories and break them down into bite-sized nuggets without losing the important information. I'm not asking you to write a professional report on your experiences with this woman, but please cut it down to a more manageable size. It's a very interesting subject, I'm just not willing to read the entire thing. You ought to be able to condense this into little more than a few brief paragraphs.

[love-fool]

Loveforum Rules/Guidelines:

"Give as much information as possible
3) Give us as much information as you feel comfortable with to work with. It's difficult to respond to most questions without knowing enough particulars. Some common ones that would be nice to work with would be whether you're a guy or girl, whether you're talking about another guy or girl, the specific scenario you need help with, and also very nice to know would be your age. ESPECIALLY if you don't put a birth date or anything in your profile. Advice can vary greatly from a 15 year old to a 30 year old, whether you are trying to pick up a guy/girl at a bar or at the local library, etc. etc."

I thought that this rule was encouraged ...

[Gribble]

Rules smules. What it comes down to is this: write more than three paragraphs and you've lost half your audience. Write more than one page and you've lost your entire audience. You want it read, condense it. Otherwise don't complain when we only read portions and make ill-informed responses.

[love-fool]

Rules smules. What it comes down to is this: write more than three paragraphs and you've lost half your audience. Write more than one page and you've lost your entire audience. You want it read, condense it. Otherwise don't complain when we only read portions and make ill-informed responses.

Ok, I'll try... I just need some time...

[Gigabitch]

Mathias did a wonderful story in short installations once. He has us all hanging on every word. Just start with the beginning....

[love-fool]

Okay, here's the quick rundown of what I was trying to express here...

There's a girl that I met about a year ago, I really like her and I'm in love with her, but she's involved in the sex business in almost every one of it's aspects... we are really good friends, but this last weekend, she told me a bit about her last "client", (she's also an escort) I wanted to ask her something about it, but then she said that she didn't wanted to discuss it, then, I made the horrible mistake of intending to ask her a casual question about her last date, I just asked her if the guy was interesting to be with, but that really upset her... I still didn't realize just how upset she was, because, first of all, I can't even see the reaction in her face, since we're online friends, and then I made the fatal mistake of telling her that she seemed to be a little edgy that night... God, how stupid I can be?! she felt very upset, and told me that she wouldn't want to talk with me again for about a week, she gave me a big "F.U.", and told me to drop dead, right after that, she left our chat, leaving me all alone talking to myself, feeling like a true imbecile...

I felt so horrible the next day, her insults were echoing in my head nonestop, it was like a living nightmare, and I have NEVER in my life insulted her before... I couldn't sleep well the previous night, I barely ate that day, and I was sending her a few messages telling her how sorry I was because of my words the other night, I kept insisting her to please give me a chance to explain, until she showed up online, she was still feeling upset about the other night, and acted a little cold with me, I was trying to put into words how bad I was feeling, but then she told me to stop acting all self centered, I didn't know exactly what she wanted to hear from me, until she told me how wrong I was to ask about her about the last "date" that she had, I can be so dense at times, so we talked about it, we cleared things up, and we seemed to be cool again afterwards, she said that she still likes me, and that I am important to her, and I told her the same things, then we just said good night, and... that's the last that I have heard from her...

I've tried to contact her with a few e-mails with just general chit chat, normal stuff, but she hasn't replied to a single one of them, even though that she used to drop me a line at least once a day, and I KNOW for a fact that she has been online recently...

Sometimes I feel so desperate wanting to send her an e-mail, asking her what's up, why has she been ignoring me lately if we are supposedly cool again, but then I decide not to, not wanting to cause any more drama... how can I let her know that I'm missing her terribly without getting all sentimental?

[love-fool]

Mathias did a wonderful story in short installations once. He has us all hanging on every word. Just start with the beginning....

Thanks, I just tried to make it short and simple, lol, so let's see if it'll work this time.