Can't finish

[dewilliams2]

Two nights ago me and my gf were having sex and I could not finish at all. I attributed it to the fact that I had a lot to drink.

But last night I was sober and for some reason I still did not finish. I mean being turned on was not an issue...I was as hard as could be and I'm still kinda hard this morning considering its been several days since I've gotten off.

We tried everything...multiple positions, oral, lingerie (not on me of course)....she finally got tired after about 3 hours though. I mean the only good thing is that she got off multiple times but at the same time I'd like to cum.

Could there be something medically wrong? Cause everything felt amazing.

[doppelgaenger]

It sounds like you're focusing too hard on it. Orgasm is a reaction that requires a mental process, and when you focus too hard on that, you're preventing the mental process from occurring.

[QueenofCorona]

My bf is the same way when he drinks too much. I would say maybe you kind of let that night of drinking get in your head and its pysching you out now. Just relax, I'm sure its nothing medical other than stress/nervousness.

[dewilliams2]

Yea the other night did kind of bother me, maybe I am over thinking it now.

I just don't want anything in that area to be broken...I really enjoy using it.

[dono01]

Nah man, it the anesthetic qualities of the alcohol at work. No worries.

If you ever want to enhance your orgasm at all, take about 75mg of diphenhydramine (Benadryl) about an hour before you plan to have sex. Trust me, take my word for it. It will make your orgasm 5x harder.

[Gigabitch]

Sounds like you got overstimulated. I suggest taking a break and going back at it after a few minutes.

[doppelgaenger]

I want to get drunk with my gf and have sex. If she and I just sat around and got drunk together, that might be kind of fun. I don't normally drink though.

[Rich]

giga, what is overstimulated?

[Gigabitch]

giga, what is overstimulated?

Exactly what dewilliams described. it feels great, but you can't actually finish because the nerves in your penis are overstimulated and have to calm down- kind of like resetting yourself. This happens to my husband sometimes. He makes sure he doesn't cum too fast and then it takes a long time to get there (no complaints from me).

[dewilliams2]

Exactly what dewilliams described. it feels great, but you can't actually finish because the nerves in your penis are overstimulated and have to calm down- kind of like resetting yourself. This happens to my husband sometimes. He makes sure he doesn't cum too fast and then it takes a long time to get there (no complaints from me).

I've never heard of that before....I do always make sure she gets off one way or another even these past two times I've made sure she has gotten off several times....so your saying I shouldn't hold back?...cause I could be done way before her....I could probably be done twice before she is done once honestly.

[Gigabitch]

No, you SHOULD hold back or at least go down on her until she's satisfied, then you can let it go. If you do get overstimulated, you just need a little break. See if she'll blow you after a couple of minutes. I'm told it's awesome.

[dewilliams2]

I don't think thats it cause last night we gave up after awhile but I was still hard and it'd probably been like 10 minutes and she gave me a bj but I still couldn't finish...I mean I really liked it....but she eventually got tired of it....it was still takin me forever.

[Gigabitch]

Yes, but did you take a break last night? To give yourself time to calm down a little?

[Rich]

thanks for the info giga
I'll keep it in mind

[dewilliams2]

Do you mean I gotta lose the wood?...is that what you mean by calm down?....if thats the case then now...and I woke up with morning wood....and I pretty much had to sit down a lot today if you catch my drift...she is coming home in an hour and we are doing something about this....I can't be walkin around with a hard-on. I work at a zoo...there are kids running around.