who is wrong in here? do you think this is an order?please need help

[teeshaandamidah]

Him:do you want to cancel tomorrow?
her:no I want to see you why cancel?
him:u might be tired.i'm coming there early and you're gonna be out late tonight.
her:no i'm just waiting on my aunt I wanted her to make this dish that I love so much i'm just waiting for it to be ready then i'll leave after
him:who knows how long that would be
her:baby just come pick me up in the morning
him:if I come I would be there at 8 i don't take orders
her:ok
him:you need to learn to ask not give orders
her:just come pick me up in the morning is not an order him:not gonna do it unless you ask the right way
her:you want me to beg you for that?i can't lower myself like that.my car isn't working right now I don't have money at the moment,i already feel like sh**t cause I don't have a job you want to make it worse for me?if you don't want to do it its your choice
him:u getting mad at me because you're in a bad mood.not my fault ur car isnt working.i didnt appreciate the way u talked to me I let you know cause I feel it was necessary then what do u do,bark out another order.ask like u got some sense or keep ur tail in the house
her:you're right.thank you
him:whatever enjoy your week end.good night WHO DO YOU THINK IS WRONG?

[Wakeup]

Both "he" and "she" are in the wrong for texting all that to each other instead of using the voice function of their phones and getting it cleared up immediately. If "she' said "Just pick me up in the morning" and he heard she's voice he wouldn't have viewed it as a command most likely.

What does it matter who's right and who's wrong? "She" should be concentrating on the fact that "he" just orchastrated a situtation out of nothing in order NOT to see "her" int he morning while at the same time making "her" think it was "her" fault. Manipulative as fk from where I'm sitting.

[vashti]

yup. manipulation.

[asdfg789]

manipulative +1 . why do u put up with this ?