Sent ex a closure text after 5 months NC

[emooore]

He hasn't responded yet. I probably should have expected this but do you think it was needed? I won't be attending the same school as him anymore and essentially wanted to say goodbye. I did bring up the past, although it was subtly. I basically said that with our differences I still consider him a good, funny person with a lot going for him, told him I apologized for everything I did, thanked him for respecting my virginity, and told him to have fun at college. Fyi things ended pretty badly and we would only see each other drunkenly at parties on the weekend soon thereafter--but that was months ago. Overall, the tone of the text was confirmative so it probably didn't warrant a response, but still. We dated for only a couple months btw.

[searock]

No, it wasn't needed. "Closure" is something that you give yourself. There was no point in reopening your own wound. Don't expect a response - actually, hope that it will not come - and keep moving on.

[Mr. Turtle]

Why even bother with it. Women really need to stop this habit. Its like reading a book until its end, putting it on the shelf, THEN reading the preface. Unnecessary.

[searock]

Why even bother with it. Women really need to stop this habit. Its like reading a book until its end, putting it on the shelf, THEN reading the preface. Unnecessary.

It's not only (some) women who do it.

[Mr. Turtle]

It's not only (some) women who do it.

Truth. I stand corrected. I was very biased in that. Not my intent.