Only 16 and GF talking about kids??

[HiMyNameisNick]

im 16 she 17. been dating for 7 months.

so for the past week she has been asking me every single day "what if I was pregnant?" and she wont stop. Her reason for this is she always gets worrier right before her time of month.....which I guess i can kinda understand that?

But last night when she asked it again I said I would regret if it happen because im too young to be a father, and im too busy to have time for a kid (DUH). and all of the sudden she goes crazy and flips out saying things like I would have to quit boy scouts and quit every single sport I do and not go to college and spend every single day with her and the kid.

So this got me to thinking that if she got pregnant my life would be ruined.....so I just told her no more sex so she would stop talking because I have huge test next day and it was 1 in the morning.

But she said she will never look at me the same because when I told her im really busy I wouldnt have time for a kid, she now assumes I would run away, and she says she doesnt even know if she can I love you anymore to me....

Girls are so confusing sometimes. i dont know why she even brings this garbage up because we always use a condom plus she on birth control...

But if she is gonna look at me in a different way and cant say I love you then thats really messed up to ruin a relationship over one comment

[Petit Papillon]

OMG she so crazy and immature. I highly advice You to break up with her or at least... HAVE NO SEX UNTILL SHE GROWS UP! If not , I predict some problems with her in nearly future.

[vashti]

She is too young for sex. That is why she acts like a child.

[iHEARTu]

Well. I'm sorry, but i kinda half agree with your girlfriend here.

If you ARE in a commited relationship and if you're prepared to have sex- you have to be prepared for the consequences.

It's a good thing you're using a condom and she's on birth control. But if worse comes to worst and she does somehow conceive a baby: telling her "i'm too busy for a kid" DOES sound like you would leave her.

So if you're not in a committed relationship- dont have sex. if you dont want kids- dont have sex. Thats basically it. Condoms and birth control is not guaranteed to work all the time 100%. so you cant fully rely on that all the time.

Make the right choice man. :|

[Lovable]

I agree with what has been said before me, your both really too young to be having sex.

Not only that, your both to young to deal with the possible outcome having sex could come about.

Being pregnant at 16-17 is no pick nick at all.

I suggest you both stop having sex & either work on your relationship in other ways or break it off.

[Petit Papillon]

She shouldn't even think about it at her age in the first place. Seems like it's her who is not ready to have kids. If she wants her bf to stop the school and become a loser just to stay with her baby at home,then she's more immature than immature Who will pay the bills and everything if none of them won't even finish the high school? Sorry but nowadays without school you can at best, work at Mc'Donald. He's good and immature thinking boy. And Your thinking is as immature as her. (it was to IHeartU)

[Sallyluv]

There are girls out there that wouldn't mind getting pregnant at such a young age and it looks like she is one of them. I think you did the right thing. It's better to speak your mind now rather than her getting pregnant later and you spill the beans. Both of you are young to be having sex as stated above. If you don't want babies, you shouldn't have sex. Birth control is not always guaranteed along with condoms, they do break. So just be careful and honest and hope you two can get through this if you really love each other.

[iateyourcookie]

Well it seems to me that she's just exploring options. It IS possible she could get pregnant. She's just throwing 'what ifs' at you. Yes, you did the right thing by stopping the sex (imo you should just stop unless both of you are really ready, but heck you both are still so young!)

You guys need to really sit down and have a serious conversation over this. Tell her straight up to act like an adult.

[Gigabitch]

Run, Nick. Run.

[kai]

Don't take a condom from her hand. Buy your own.

[VincenzoG91]

Yeah, I agree that you should probably get out of this relationship. She is too young to be so obsessed with babies, and the tone of her questions suggests that she is thinking about going off birth control (without telling you) and may sabotage your condoms.

[shheadz]

Her reason for this is she always gets worrier right before her time of month

Does she always get a little crazy right about the same time every month? Don't even play this game with her, because you're not going to win. If you tell her you'd stay in school and go to college instead of being with her and the kid, then you're a heartless jerk that doesn't care about her. If you tell her you'd drop out and skip college to be with her and the kid, then you're a deadbeat that doesn't want to get a better job to support her and the kid. Either way, you lose.

[Petit Papillon]

There is always a way to be with her and the baby AND do school and degree. But if she requires from him to drop the school and stay at home with her and the baby then it's : immature,unreasonable and stupid as shit.

[Chupacabras]

Stick to blowjobs.

[qwertz]

Time of the month is no excuse for being neurotic.

Im with giga,...run...very fast.