If you read, "I am attracted to her (me), just not as much as other younger women"...

[allyups]

What would you do if you read something of your boyfriends that was left out that said "She says I am not attracted to her, but I am, just not as much as other, younger women, but that's just based on looks." Is this normal? Do guys just not say or write this? Please offer any advice.

[lastwish]

He would get a slap in the face.

[miSSleepy]

I'm actually very interested to hear some opinions on this

[boobaa]

He likes you, but obviously is having second thoughts. It is strange though...

[Mish]

What would you do if you read something of your boyfriends that was left out that said "She says I am not attracted to her, but I am, just not as much as other, younger women, but that's just based on looks." Is this normal? Do guys just not say or write this? Please offer any advice.

Yeh all the time, right after "You look a bit old for me, but I feel sorry for you so I won't mind"

Where did you find such a travesty? And what did you tell him to conclude "She says I am not attracted to her, but I am"?

[bluesummer]

If I read something my bf wrote like that, I would be asking him about it.

I personally would not want to feel like he's 'settling' for me.

[allyups]

I have asked him. I think I should at least be equal.

[bluesummer]

Okay.....well what did he say?

[Mathias]

Something tells me you read/saw this in an immoral way.

Don't do that. Very few people see no improvement in their partners. Those few people are lying to themselves.

If he loves you, get over it. It happens.