Update on my previous posts! When i was with my ex i did some research about her being bipolar as i'v never come across mood swings , highs & lows like it! her daughter has comfirmed she is bipolar to me . When she finished our 3 year relationship by text i was relieved in one way but also cut me up as well , 4 months down the line of me not contacting her , i have heard from her! she's finished with the geez she was seeing whilst with me , gone on a dating site with loads of offers as she's gorgeous but wants me to get in touch with her . I'v met a nice girl now & its a relief to be in a normal set up without the treading on egg shells & the hot & cold spells! As i'v posted my ex treated me like crap & emptied my bank balance in the process but as other people have told me it wasn't her but her illness! I spose i'll always have something for her but i'm just getting myself back on my feet & getting back to the person i used to be , happy go lucky with a smile on my face , should i contact her???
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18-05-12, 12:23 AM #1
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She realises the grass isn't so green!!!
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18-05-12, 12:42 AM #2
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No don't contact her. Leave it alone
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18-05-12, 05:34 AM #3
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She treated you like crap.
She emptied your bank account.
And you are seriously wondering whether you should contact her? Are you really that stupid?
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18-05-12, 05:39 AM #4
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If you go back with her, I think that same thing might happen because of her illness and it would probably be never ending thing....
You should just move on, not to contact her....ignore her.
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18-05-12, 07:41 AM #5
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People blame their illness for a lot...bipolar isn't an excuse for taking your money. Don't contact her unless you're sending her a statement for the money you want back.
"All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley
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18-05-12, 08:07 AM #6
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Worth repeating.
Originally Posted by Boisdevie
I'll add that don't think that she has "realized that the grass isn't so green" It's more like she is just trying to see if she can pull you back in for another round of abuse. Seems you were easy to abuse the first time. Don't let her, don't give her an opportunity do that to you again.Last edited by Wakeup; 18-05-12 at 08:10 AM.
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She probably figures you've replenished your bank account.
...as ancient astronaut theorists would suggest
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18-05-12, 10:39 AM #8
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Hahaha. This^. Come on, Gavlon. Just don't. Originally Posted by haxan
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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