women aren't about sex dude. its about the relationship...until they establish what they feel is a "good" relationship...sex is just on the back burner unless they just give it up for the hell of it. i don't know why more guys don't realize that...
"So tonight, when you're wondering what to say, or how you look, or whether or not she likes you, just remember, she is already out with you. That means she said yes when she could have said no. That means she made a plan when she could have just blown you off. So that means it is no longer your job to try to make her like you. It is your job not to mess it up."
-Hitch