I'm 21 male, intelligent, attractive in the physical department, nice but certainly no pushover. I'm not shy but introverted and doesn't talk a lot.
I don't know what's the problem here except that I've been rejected and friend zoned for 4 consecutive times with 4 different girls. I tend to establish a friendship first with said girl before professing any romantic interest but am always rejected with the "you're a really nice guy but it's better we remain friends" or "you'll find someone better. My texts are always promptly replied-almost instantly-, we went out and we have had text flirting. However, those dinner and movie dates just never went beyond to an official exclusive relationship. I'm pretty quiet when out on dates since I rarely adore talking.
Now I do not know where the F* does the problem lies. Every time there will be a guy who enters the picture shortly after I've been rejected. When I look at their boyfriend, I do not in any way pale in comparison to them. I realize I have grown extremely bitter, angry and misogynistic. It's awfully painful to see the one whom you are romantic interested in be in the arms of some other guys.
I end up paying for meet ups even after being rejected. Tell me how I can avoid being friend zoned! I'm not looking for solutions to win her over ( I do want to be with her but I'm too swallowed with anger) because I wouldn't sell or trade my spine away for a dating opportunity with some girl who rejected me. I have grown comfortable being angry with the opposite gender and wouldn't want to shift from this comfort zone as of yet.
Tell me how I can hook up with some girl easily to show them I can indeed find someone better than them as they had wished so. Look, I want help badly! Constructive inputs please!