I started going out with this girl almost 2 weeks ago. We have spent a lot of time chatting online and on the phone. We have also gone out a few times. She is really careful about giving out personal information, which I understand, and is alsowanting to take stuff not too far too fast. I am fine with that.
The background is that over the last few weeks we have gone out on 5 dates. The first one was a lunch date, and we got together that night to play pool. We were at the pool hall from 9 till it closed at 2 and then kept talking outside will after 3 AM. The third date she invited me out to grab some dinner and we again, after dinner, talked for a long time. Nothing further happened at this time, mainly because she had been sick as well. Our 4th date I invited her to come to a small house party where my friends were at, we all had a great time and they called the party around 2 AM and she and I went outside, we talked for a second and then started making out till a little after 4. It was a great time. The next day we were supposed to go hiking but due to being out late she was not feeling well so we changed it to a movie and lunch outing instead. I did not want her to think that I was expecting the making out everytime so I did not make a move on her when we were out and about for those few hours.
The point is that I really like this girl, but I want to make sure I do not end up in the friend zone and at the same time I do not want to push something and lose her at the same time. We know a lot about eachother and have a blast when we are together.
At this point I am trying to find a way to make sure we keep the kissing and such as a standard thing, not a 2 hour makeout session, but a sign of affection. From what I put above here does it seem that I would be overstepping any boundries by trying to kiss her when we meet up somewhere? I have been out of the game for a long time so I dont want to mess something up with someone that is special to me.
Any thoughts on this all?
Thanks