Hi, I am a 43-yr old female. I met this guy and we have a year relationship but he lives overseas, although we had plans to move together this coming year. Meanwhile, I happen to meet this other guy here in town and went out with him without any expectations. To make the long story brief, we have been together now for two months and going strong. Now I need to travel overseas to see the other guy and for some training (that has been planned more than half a year ago). Both guys are wonderful! The one that lives overseas is 51 yr old, never married and no kids, economic position ok. The local guy is a very succesful professional, 56 yr old, divorced with 4 older kids. Me, 43, divorced with a 10 yr-old kid.
I know I'm more compatible with the one overseas, but the prospects with the local one are more "stable". Kind of in a funky situation now, I would like to decide to be with one. Any suggestion?