Can't forget about her.

[symphonic]

Hi, I've been best friends with her since I was 5 years old. I started to have more deeper feelings for her about 3 years ago, but i know that she doesn't feel the same way about me since she referes to me as her brother and has had a few boyfriends. I tried to push these feelings aside, but it never workes. I even stopped talking, well tried..we still said hi from time to time, for 6 months since almost every site i went on for help said to distance myself from her. I thought that it worked, but i saw her at a picnic and I just melted, i couldn't even say anything and when I tried I started stuttering. I couldn't even think straight. This usually happenes when ever i was near her.

I've read the stickyed post and they really didn't work that well. I somehow always ended up thinking about her, even though i tried not to. Is this normal or am i doing something wrong? Does anyone have any advice on this?

[andzelis]

I think you are in love but if you make a move first you must be guaranted that she will admit that move, otherwise you can hurt het. Because if she sees you as a brother, not as a men, you have to show that you are a men for her, not best friend or like a brother.

[markokrim]

get over with her it is hard. i made same mistake; 4 years have past and i still love her; i have a wife now but i always remember her(my ex best girl friend) as the love of my life. one i told to my friend: if i don't marry her i will never love again and it happened to me. so dont waste your time...get over her. julietswall.com

[symphonic]

Well i'll keep trying. Maybe one day i'll get over her. Sigh..It feels like im killing a part of me by doing this =(.