shit

[claws]

I haven't had a girl for ages....really!. It's been 4 years now. I don't know is it me or this place or girls here. I find a girl I like, and shes either taken or I'm not ' that guy' for her. What the hell...I'm outgoing, and I don't lack self esteem. This sucks 4 real. I just don't get it...really...what the?

[Hollywood_]

Sounds like a bad run of luck, happens to the best of us. Wait it out or move to Southern California, haha.

[Mish]

Expand the places where you look, expand your circle of friends, try women from other places and other circles. Keep trying, don't give up.

[Enigmos]

focus on yourself. don't look desparate. ironically, it's when you're not looking that women look at you.

[tooxshort]

ironically, it's when you're not looking that women look at you.

Cliche, yes. But, oh so true.

Just enjoy the single life for now ... I think women can sense desperation or loneliness ... Self-confidence goes a long way, especially how others (not just women) see you.

[thrillaveza]

yup SoCal is where it's at!! but seriously though, i know what you mean. i think i will take these peoples advice as well. usually when we don't look for it, the malevolent powers of the universe/fate etc. will provide what we are looking for.