I think I'm growing bored of sex.
With the same woman.
I think I'm growing bored of sex.
With the same woman.
Maybe you should limit your frequency. If I ate chocolate as frequently as I wanted, it probably wouldn't be so fantastic after a while, would it?
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Slippery slope, Fras. In the end, its ALL the same. Sex is the orgasm & what goes on in your head. That's why ppl who run around eventually go back to a single partner.
But, until you've been around a bit, you won't believe it. Don't know what else to advise.
But frequency has already dropped significantly.
And I can always eat chocolate.
In fact, I'd say my love for food outweighs my love for sex.
Well then, I guess it is possible you are just on the down side of your sexual peak. It happens early for males.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Mbe you could try *dating* other ppl but agree to no sex (unless you discuss & agree).
My husband & I went through something similar. For us, the realization that we are so intellectually compatible (and otherwise) went a long way to making the sex issue seem insignificant. That, and the fact that we know ppl who have had loads of partners & cheated and they weren't happier.
Which means, if its not about the number & variety of partners, then what IS it about, Fras?
When you have sex try something different each time.
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
That's just it.
I see all these hot girls, and I wanna poke them all.
But when I stop to think about it, I know that few of them would be as good as her, in general.
Shit like that dude callin' his g/f a pig in a very lighthearted joking way, would be a non-issue for her. Plus she let me put it in her butt once. And she's put it up my butt more than once. And she lets me grab and grope her all the time. And she puts up with my bouts of anger. And she still tries to believe I'm a genuinely a good person when I say things like "I'd let him die", or "A black man stole my wallet" (when in fact he didn't and I found it later). And she's funny. And she cooks for me. And she tries to dress nicer now. And she showers me with thanks when I do stuff for her.
I'd be hard pressed to find someone so quality.
Maybe she needs to put me down for a while. Make me wonder why she's not paying so much attention to me. Make me worry a little, make me get all dramatic and think she's going to leave me. Make me go and buy her Dr. Pepper and a flower in a desperate attempt to remind her why I'm so spectacular. Then kiss her a lot and buzz around her when she's dressed all pretty, and act like I don't want sex when in fact I'm seconds from busting out of my pants because she's finally giving me the attention I'm looking for. And when she gives me her ass, and I have my way with her, I can go back to thinking the mail lady is so hot and I'd want to pump her full of my seed, and the college girl's grass is so much greener than the grass here. And that would be her cue to ignore me once more so I could continue the cycle.
The only real thing of value, Fras, in my experience is support for mutual growth. I've said this before so I won't post my essay on this. Paths to growth.
That said, nothing lasts for ever. Even if you marry her, there is no guarantee either of you will be compatible in 10 years. Ppl change, grow, evolve (some devolve), and not always in the same direction.
Just be true to yourselves first and then decide if you are good for each other. For however long it lasts.
*kiss*
From my own experience and those of my mates 18-21 is the age of serious relationships. 22-24 is seed spreading time. Bring out the sluts.
Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
Invite me over for a 3some to spruce up your sex life