I love her, she loves me, whats the ****ing prob?

[bertbertolli]

Hey,

Ok i met a girl recently,
It was kaboom from day one
I kissed her etc....
Then i hear she has a boyfriend but she loves me way more.

She tells me she wants me so bad but she will wait untill her love for me is over she told me :s

Because she can't take it to dump her current bf. She still hopes she will be happy with him again one day.

I don't get it i love her she loves me. Why doesn't she choose for a definately with me, instead of a maybe with her bf.
She told me that she was only unhappy with her bf when i came on stage, so that it is all her fault.

It's not about who's fault it's ****ing life, don't fight life, don't fight changes, embrace it is what i want to tell her.

And no she's no playing with me she's mentally destroying herself.

Would like to have some advice i think this is a hard one.

grtz



facts (for sure): she loves me
i love her
she doesn't love bf anymore but is waiting for it to come back because she blames herself for the bad relation
boyfriend is an idiot, he does not want what's good for her
she gives herself away!

[Mish]

I don't get it i love her she loves me. Why doesn't she choose for a definately with me, instead of a maybe with her bf.

Why doesn't she choose you over him when she says she loves you more?

You guessed it. It's because she lied to you and she wants to be with him more than with you.

Why would you want to be with a cheater anyway? You don't think she's going to do the same to you as she did to him if you did manage to hook up later on?

[IndiReloaded]

She's not married to the guy.

So, what the guys said (Mish & OV): if she loved you that much, she would break up w/her BF and get with you.

YOU, my friend, are being played by this female. Like a harp. She is enjoying the attention you shower on her (and mbe even rubbing her BFs nose in it). Classic bitch behaviour. Find someone honest who will care for you back.

[Cain]

How recently is recently?

How soon after you met did she claim to love you?

And how old are you?

[bertbertolli]

i'm 20 she's 21
bf is 18

and no she's not playing me she's playing herself
she's too good, because the bf loves her she doesn't think it's fair to leave him but she doesn't love him

she's got too low value for herself or what do you call it

but thx for the little advice

it's not that simple, i wish she was playing me then i would know what to do

[Indignant]

Мишаня? Вы случайно не русский?