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    broken heart

    I just want to say my story and hear a few coments because i feel really down.
    I was in a very serious relationship with a girl for 3 months, which ended 3 month ago because she entered a military school and i wouldn't be able to see her.
    Since then i had little stories going on with 3 girls but nothing very seriousbecause i couldn't get over the first one....

    All this time i had the idea that she would feel the same way for me too, as we only broke up because of the reason i mentioned and not because we fought or something.

    So i kept thinking of her and of ways we could make it work in the future .
    We started talking on the phone every weekend and today i asked her how she felt about me.

    first she didn't want to answer and the she said she didn't feel anything now, and that she had stoped thinking of me during these last three months.

    All i want t know is how can you have such a deep relationship(i mean very deep) with someone and then throw him off because you spent 3 month apart...?

    I mean, was she lying to me? or does it really takes 3 months to forget that you loved another person?

    i feel really dissapointed

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    Drop her, who cares? You just know that for whatever reason, she was a bitch to you by dropping you and she isn't worth your time.

    Get your ass off of the computer and go find a new girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathu View Post
    Drop her, who cares? You just know that for whatever reason, she was a bitch to you by dropping you and she isn't worth your time.

    Get your ass off of the computer and go find a new girl.
    Listen to this guy.

    He knows stuff.

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    People Lie. And people are mean and callous and they are all that with staight faces and lying tongues.

    She left you. That makes her bad. You are still the same person and by the looks of it, a good person.

    One comforting notion is that lying cheating ******* get their comeuppance, sooner rather than later.

    Unfortunately, nothing but time is going to help you now. Savour the pain and learn from it.

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    Uh...hussain...this thread is really ****in' old dude. Cut yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathu View Post
    Uh...hussain...this thread is really ****in' old dude. Cut yourself.

    It isn't all that old. Someone else bumped a "favorite band" thread that was two YEARS old.

    Anyway, I don't think the girl lied about loving this guy. They only had a 3 month long relationship. It isn't supposed to take longer than the length of the relationshihp to get over someone. She just didn't spend the last three months emotionally investing herself into something she knew wasn't going to work. ::shrug::
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Well, I'm sorry to say that if someone is able to end things so easily then maybe it wasn't serious to begin with. I mean, how can you really know someone and be so "deep" in a relationship after only three months. You'll find a beautiful girl who deserves the attention that you're willing to giveher . Don't waste your time worrying about your ex, you deserve better!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathu View Post
    Uh...hussain...this thread is really ****in' old dude. Cut yourself.
    Does it matter? Are old threads never read ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    It isn't all that old. Someone else bumped a "favorite band" thread that was two YEARS old.
    My Apologies vashti, for I haven't been regular here
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    funny isn't it, that people question how someone can fall out of love in 3 months but never question how they can fall in love in equal amount of time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mhussain View Post
    My Apologies vashti, for I haven't been regular here

    Was that you, too, who bumped the two year old thread?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Was that you, too, who bumped the two year old thread?
    Hah! He has stopped understanding what you're saying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer101 View Post
    funny isn't it, that people question how someone can fall out of love in 3 months but never question how they can fall in love in equal amount of time.
    Very, very true.

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