If a girl rejected you before and said "there will never be a us" but.....?

[David12]

But anyway, I know there is a very very slim chance that I can ever be famous or populer but say that I was..

Say that I was a rockstar or a movie star or something, would she want me than?????

oh and here is a very quick summary of what happened


"I pursured this girl I liked a whole lot, me and her hung out a few times, but at the time she had a boyfriend, I confessed my feelings to her, she said she was flattered that I liked her but didn't feel the same way, me and her remained friends, however, she didn't put a whole alot of effort into. She broke up wit her boyfriend finally and I went to go see a movie with her and her best friend Michelle.I bought her flowers and she said thanks, but thats it. However, there was no spark and we hardly spoke at all, they didn't pay much attention to me. Before I left she only gave me a slight hug and left. next day she send me an email saying she shouldnt have brought me those flowers and that there will never a us. She actually did this kinda mean, I said I was sry and such. I tried to remain friends with her but she was no longer putting much effort. So I backed off and she never tried to contact me or anything. Never heard from her since. "

[vashti]

She doesn't want you. She doesn't care for you in that way. The reason she was "mean" is that you can't seem to accept that she is simply not interested, and so you forced her to be more assertive. Stop being a pest. No means no.

[David12]

Yes I know that! The question here is though if I were rich and famous would she want me??

oh and this is a "what if" question meaning I know I will never become famous. This is kinda just for fun so please stick to that. Thanks

[The Great OV!!!]

Yes I know that! The question here is though if I were rich and famous would she want me??

oh and this is a "what if" question meaning I know I will never become famous. This is kinda just for fun so please stick to that. Thanks

Does she want someone rich and/or famous? Obviously all girls have a standard and bar that a guy meets at which point they decide to date him. You are not meeting her standards whatever thet maybe.

She doesn't want you. She doesn't care for you in that way. The reason she was "mean" is that you can't seem to accept that she is simply not interested, and so you forced her to be more assertive. Stop being a pest. No means no.

He didn't seem that pushy to me, all he did was tell her how he feels. Where did you read that he kept pushing on her?

[Freeway3137]

I'd say yes. She'll take your money, make a couple TV appearances get famous off of you and then dump you

[Ellynn]

IF she would only want you if you were rich and famous, then she is obviously not the right kind of girl to be going after. If a girl really likes YOU, she will like you regardless of your wealth and popularity.

[vashti]

He didn't seem that pushy to me, all he did was tell her how he feels. Where did you read that he kept pushing on her?

You have to read all his posts OV...
He definitely has a pattern.

[The Great OV!!!]

You have to read all his posts OV...
He definitely has a pattern.

ah, ok..gotcha