When you tell a guy to stop contacting you

[kene]

Hello ladies,

Question for you.

When you break up with a boyfriend and he keeps trying to contact you (phone calls, emails whatever) does it annoy you or do you actually enjoy it in some way (like an ego stroking) seeing how far he'll go?

When I was a teenager I knew this waitress at the bar I worked that must have broken up with her boyfriend every other week! Is it sometimes just a silly game being played?

Thanks in advance!

[Trista22]

personally, I think its very attractive, it shows the female that the guy is interested still and does care for you. It actually makes us more attracted to you, but on the down side there are chicks out there who don't like it, so be careful cause in some cases you can push them away. But I'm a weirdo so I like it, although if he did call and i didn't answer (on purpose) I would call him back (thats if she does love/care for you)

[agatha]

If the girl doesn't show anything towards the boy and shes getting angry with what your doing, THAT'S VERY ANNOYING IN THE PART OF THE GIRL. But when she still communicates you and that's probably the time shes testing you.

You can determine only if the person do likes you or not through her action.

[starbuck]

If I break up with someone and he calls me, I usually feel so many mixed emotions that my ego is the last thing on my mind.

[misombra]

it can't annoy me if i change my number.

[Kromat]

it can't annoy me if i change my number.

But many times can you change your # ?
You'll have to give new # to your workplace, friends, and family, so it would rather be annoying to keep doing something like that.

[lastwish]

Its not so much about the ego. It tells the girl that the guy still has feelings for her.

She'll find it annoying if she doesn't like you anymore (you'll know that this is the case if she gets angry and tell you to f*** off) but if she responds to your calls and emails (even if its once in awhile) then she might be just testing your faith.