physical side..

**qwertz** · 25-03-10, 04:47 AM

Ive been seeing a guy for almost a month now, but we have known each other a lot longer. Even before we got together he made it clear that he found me very attractive and since we have been dating he has made it even clearer!...BUT...everytime things get heated up, he changes the subject/says he has to go/make a call etc..literally all we have done is kiss and a little hand wandering!

I havent spoke to him about it, as i dont want to make it a 'problem'. Everything apart from the physical side is going fantastically, so i wouldnt say its overly concerning me..but then again i do know that he was not like this with previous GF's.

Thoughts please

**Gigabitch** · 25-03-10, 05:05 AM

Are you dead sure he's single?

**qwertz** · 25-03-10, 05:13 AM

yeh, definately.

**Gigabitch** · 25-03-10, 05:16 AM

Do you work with him? Maybe that's a problem for him. it would be for me.

Or maybe he's having a herpes outbreak. See what a catastrophist I am? I always think of the worst thing.

**davidtorres** · 25-03-10, 05:28 AM

thats weird. maybe hes hiding something "physically". i cant imagine any guy will stop even if the world is ending when it comes to that!

**qwertz** · 25-03-10, 05:35 AM

I used to work with him- he was 'the' boss (from my old thread lol) but i got a promotion and moved to another site so we dont work together at all now..first thing he did when i transferred was ask me out!

**QueenofCorona** · 25-03-10, 05:39 AM

Maybe has erectile issues and doesn't want you to realize? Thats the only thing I can think of.

**the_robot** · 25-03-10, 05:45 AM

Maybe he is not sure about his... sexual capabilities?

**qwertz** · 25-03-10, 05:46 AM

possibly...though has no problems getting one and keeping it for the times that do get heated!

**the_robot** · 25-03-10, 05:49 AM

Originally Posted by qwerty123

possibly...though has no problems getting one and keeping it for the times that do get heated!

You'll have to talk to him, it's very hard to tell... it could be anything

**qwertz** · 25-03-10, 05:49 AM

he's pretty experienced so i wouldnt think he doubts his capabilities....he did say lots of men find me intimidating...but he said that in general convo, before any of this. :S

**dewilliams2** · 25-03-10, 12:21 PM

It could just be that since he has known you for so long it is hard for him to get passed that. I'll admit I began seeing a girl I had known for like 10 years and getting physical to begin with was really weird...I mean I loved it don't get me wrong...but it was hard to initiate...haha...I said hard.

Seriously though...you should talk to him about it and tell him you don't want to put pressure on anything and your okay with taking your time but you want to make sure it is where he is planning on taking things.

**all alone** · 25-03-10, 12:22 PM

maybe your just too horny for your own good?.. haha well jks aside, it does sound pretty mysterious.. i don't see way things wouldn't have progressed any further.

**Mish** · 25-03-10, 12:40 PM

Originally Posted by qwerty123

I used to work with him- he was 'the' boss (from my old thread lol) but i got a promotion and moved to another site so we dont work together at all now..first thing he did when i transferred was ask me out!

The two of you still are technically working for the same company, he used to be your boss. The ground for rumours is rife. If this is to go through, both of you will have to watch your backs and live double lives at work, personally this would be enough concern for me to re-consider.

**vashti** · 25-03-10, 01:00 PM

Maybe he is simply trying to demonstrate respect?

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