My heart is dying.

[Makoyo]

Ive met this girl 4 weeks ago i really felt connected with her we told each other EVERYTHING all our secrets it was really fun..then one day she start ignoring me and when i ask she told me life goes on and hung up..1 day later i met her again i told her why...she said sorry ur getting to attach from that day on my heart broked...icant believe she would give up our friendship for this little crush i have. i knew she doesn't want a relationship and i try to keep it a secret but she found out..i feel so sad right now i cant sleep eat or nothing i try doing stuff but i couldn't get her out of my mind.

I'am 16 years old..plz dont say that iam to young for true love because i'am not i really like her...i feel like shes the only one that understands me.

sorry for my bad grammar.

[Mathias]

Ive met this girl 4 weeks ago

This is all I needed to know.

If you think you're in love, you've got a lot to learn. I don't care how old you are.

[Makoyo]

Thank you for your reply

but i know i love her!

i just need some advice of what to do cus lately i really feel depress..4 weeks or 4 years i believe in love at first sight.

[Mathias]

Thank you for your reply

but i know i love her!

Fair enough, and you'll learn with time, as the rest of us did.

For now, my advice is simple...whatever you do, do NOT contact her. She needs space, and lots of it if she's ever going to come back to you.

And stop being a wimp. I mean that in the nicest way possible.

[Makoyo]

Thank you i will.
It's just that this is my first time i feel like this..its just a weird feeling...my friend said to forget and move on but i just cant.

How can i win her back..i rather have her as a friend i can talk to then being like this
how long should i give her space? before saying anything to her?

[Jimmy1218]

You're not liking her cause of her looks are you? 4 weeks...wow. You should at least wait for a few months before you try anything beyond friendship.

[Mathias]

Thank you i will.
It's just that this is my first time i feel like this..its just a weird feeling...my friend said to forget and move on but i just cant.

Well, your friend sucks.

You're not going to just "forget it" in five seconds. Life doesn't work like that.

By "don't be a wimp", I mean, don't let it control you. It sucks to have to go out and do stuff, but do it anyway. Prove that you're above all that, and you'll be miles ahead of where you should be.

Best of luck to you, my friend.

[Mathias]

You should at least wait for a few months before you try anything beyond friendship.

I hate this advice, BTW.

You'll never escape the friends zone with girls if you wait months to make a move.

[Makoyo]

What? i love her looks or not she understand me i feel comfort when talking to her..i didn't say i like her...i told my self that i should keep my crush a secret from her because i knew it would ruin our friendship..but she found out one day and it was like this.

[Makoyo]

Well, your friend sucks.

You're not going to just "forget it" in five seconds. Life doesn't work like that.

By "don't be a wimp", I mean, don't let it control you. It sucks to have to go out and do stuff, but do it anyway. Prove that you're above all that, and you'll be miles ahead of where you should be.

Best of luck to you, my friend.

TY Mathias i will try to do things to forget about her.

[Jimmy1218]

Watch TV, it helps.

[Makoyo]

yeah i tried that..didn't help that much i couldn't focus on the show.

[Gigabitch]

I think you were right to tell her, even if it did ruin your friendship. Life is too short to live a lie.

You can't get her back. This is something that happens to everybody at one time or another. Welcome to the Heartbreak Club, kid.