Is it really bad to pick on boys at school?

[MistySally]

Currently in 8th and till last year, I mainly picked on these 4 boys in my school (have been picking on them ever since 4th grade; sometimes stealing their lunch, tripped them, etc... was more meaner and direct back then). I thought it was funny but damn, one of them actually started crying.

Is really that bad to make you cry? I liked two of them while the other two I do for fun. But I don't know now. I have never seen a boy cry before.

Once in a long while I still picked on them (except the one that cried) but way less meaner. I kinda got bored already. BTW I'm only 14. I'm just a kid.

[pcmaster]

Well its never good to bully people. After few years these boys can become handsome guys and you will wish you would threat them better.

[Wakeup]

Currently in 8th and till last year, I mainly picked on these 4 boys in my school (have been picking on them ever since 4th grade; sometimes stealing their lunch, tripped them, etc... was more meaner and direct back then). I thought it was funny but damn, one of them actually started crying.

Is really that bad to make you cry? I liked two of them while the other two I do for fun. But I don't know now. I have never seen a boy cry before.

Once in a long while I still picked on them (except the one that cried) but way less meaner. I kinda got bored already. BTW I'm only 14. I'm just a kid.

How do you treat cats and small animals, Misty? O.o

[MistySally]

How do you treat cats and small animals, Misty? O.o

I actually love cats.

[Wakeup]

I actually love cats.

Yes but how do you treat them?

You "like" two of the boyz and look what you've done to them?

[MistySally]

Well its never good to bully people. After few years these boys can become handsome guys and you will wish you would threat them better.

I guess I'll stop. Just that at the moment, it seem kinda funny seeing the look on their faces and confused expression, kinda the same when you asked someone a question and they don't know what to answer.
But ok, I'll start being nicer.

[pcmaster]

Good you will need that love for cats when you end up alone after few years with no man just a 10 cats to keep you company.

[MistySally]

Yes but how do you treat them?

You "like" two of the boyz and look what you've done to them?

I guess it's different. I cuddle cats everytime I got to a family reunion. With two boys I liked, maybe I didn't want to show my good side and not wanting anyone to know it so I showed my mean side.

[MistySally]

Good you will need that love for cats when you end up alone after few years with no man just a 10 cats to keep you company.

That would suck. I mean, I love cats but I would want a family one day.

BTW I didn't think that was bullying since I'm a girl.

[pcmaster]

How about instead of pain you give them some love and actually get some in return too.

[basilandthyme]

Put yourself in their shoes. If for the last 4 years, someone stole your lunch, tripped you and was mean - how would you feel? I bet you'd cry too.

And ditch the 'only 14, I'm just a kid attitude'. You're old enough to know right from wrong.

[fearoflove]

LMAO. What a bunch of pussies.

[Wakeup]

Tell them you're sorry and never do it again. What you were doing is anti-social behaviour so I'm glad you've said you'll never do it again. Now you just have to prove you'll never do it again ... by never doing it again.

[MistySally]

How about instead of pain you give them some love and actually get some in return too.

Yes, I'll start being nice to them. Though, I don't think they would want to talk to me at first. I think it's going to take some time for them to come around since they mainly know me as the mean girl.

[MistySally]

Put yourself in their shoes. If for the last 4 years, someone stole your lunch, tripped you and was mean - how would you feel? I bet you'd cry too.

Actually I would have been mad and loudly say Give me back or chase him until I got my lunch. Though you're right. That would have suck.