I miss my boyfriend so much... love sick?

[Love is war]

I have a life thank you very much. I go out with friends, I study, I occupy my time with hobbies...

We're in a what he calls a "committed" long distance relationship. But I miss him so damn much. I went to the gp frequently the past few weeks, not eating much, because I was so depressed that he's far away, grounded, and too busy with this really big university opportunity that he was recommended to. I'm so happy for his success, but I just miss him because I barely talk to him now....

He and I are going to be talking normally tomorrow [I hope], but after these past few weeks, I've been so emotionally drained that I'm afraid to talk to him because of it.

I just need something to calm me down. A few comforting words, some comforting advice. Anything negative is truly uncalled for and unappreciated and frankly just a waste of your time and mine.

[Love is war]

bumpety bump

[smackie9]

No one will have anything nice to say so that is why there are no posts here.

[smackie9]

OK this is what I used to do if I was missing my BF......I would go out clubbing with my GF, drink some shots and dance with other guys all night long A good distraction is flirting with hot guys....and it worked.

[volux]

OK this is what I used to do if I was missing my BF......I would go out clubbing with my GF, drink some shots and dance with other guys all night long A good distraction is flirting with hot guys....and it worked.

That is exactly what I would want my girlfriend to NOT do if I were the guy away at this big university. Doing that would show me you don't care and that we probably shouldn't be in a relationship anymore.

[smackie9]

Too frickin bad bro.....

[smackie9]

Who said a girl has to act like an old maid and sit at home in misery......just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you can't go out and have some fun. Dancing with other guys is not cheating....it's just dancing.

[volux]

Nono, I'm not saying to sit in misery and do nothing. But if I were you, just find something fun to do that doesn't involve grinding up on other guys. I'm not a fan of that.

[Love is war]

I am going to meet him today.nervous and excited at the same time

[michelle23]

I think long distant will not work unless you are both 100% committed, both trustworthy and loyal and both make a big effort to communicate daily-whether that is a few texts, a phonecall, Facebook, Skype-whatever

And you also need to be able to see each other regularly at least a couple of times a month

[smackie9]

I said dancing not grinding......if she's gonna skank out like that then she don't need a BF.

[YoungCosmo]

Who said a girl has to act like an old maid and sit at home in misery......just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you can't go out and have some fun. Dancing with other guys is not cheating....it's just dancing.

Flirting with other guys IS cheating.

[smackie9]

It's way fun tho......