Attachment problems... Need some help

[Cbuckley]

It's summer, I'm 17, of course I'm going to find a cute girl to hang with haha... But as has happened since I was 13-14, once I get to know a girl and I like her, I get attached and can't stop thinking about her and checking facebook to see if she's on and stuff like that. These girls I date or even just have a thing with, always seem to eventually stick me firmly in the friend zone. Although I hook up with girls and I have no problem leaving them alone afterwords

This girl and I met at a community service thing at our local hospital, we found we went to the same school, started talking and planned a time to go get ice cream in a couple of days.. It went well and thing progressed to making out in her living room and deep conversations just about life. I thought everything was going great and so did she. But when I ask her to be my girlfriend, she tells me she just wants to be friends and doesn't feel strongly about me anymore.. Out of the blue, no indication.. And I really liked her and I'm hurting now... Any advice?

[nerdy_guy]

things progressed to making out in her living room

Maybe you didn't make her socks roll up and down

[Cbuckley]

I'm not sure what you mean by that

[nerdy_guy]

She felt different from making out instead of a better, closer connection

[Cbuckley]

Ok, I see, that helps alot. Thank you