I’m still in love with my ex

[Ryansk3447]

My name is Ryan and I’m not sure what to do in point of my life so I came here. My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for almost a year now but I still look at her the same and I still have those strong feelings for her, but she doesn’t have thise feelings for me anymore. She moved on from me pretty fast but I'm still stuck on her. I'm not even really attracted to other girls nor do I feel the motivation to talk to them. It's almost like I'm still loyal to her and I can't shake that or the feelings I have for her. Against better judgement we try to be friends but I don't think its going to last. I'm still very much attracted to her but she’s inconsistent one day she won't return my calls but the next she’s all over me. Most times I’m lost and unsure what to do or feel but my love for her is still there even after everything that has happened.

[DalM0m]

You have to change your self talk. Remind yourself that it's over & she's not coming back. Give up the farce of trying to be friends. Every time you try to interact with her all you do is delay your own healing. Stop. Tell yourself she is no good for you & work to move on.

I find that lists help. Make a list of all her bad qualities & reasons you are better off broken up. Then make a list of things to do to keep yourself busy.