Telling her soon. Advice, for what to do and not do, is needed. Please and thank you.

[Nolandanicerguy]

I am currently going to a small middle school with a class of 12 people in the seventh and eighth grade combined. The end of the year is nearing.

I am in love with this girl.

Or have a strong lust towards her
Or am infatuated
Or whatever you wish to call it

But whatever you wish to call it
is not the point. The point is that I want to express my feelings
I felt I needed to bold that statement for extra emphasis.

I still feel a need to tell her, before sunday, the last day I can tell her (we are graduating to different schools)

So I am making a list of "do"s and "dont"s, so that I know how to tell her.
"do"s are marked with a (+) sign as a bullet point
"dont"s are marked with a (-) sign.
(+)Make sure that you are as subtle and indifferent as you may be about the matter while telling her
(-)Do Not create a letter as means to tell her
(-)Dont tell her "I love you".
(+)Do say an alternative to I love you. What? Not yet discovered.
(+)Try to tell her in such a way that it is meshed with a life event
(+)Tell her that I wish to stay in contact with her even after middle school
(+)Be as confident as you can, go in with a positive attitude (this is the easy part, once I get it out there I dont have a problem, just like any sort of presentation or occurrence that might make you nervous at first. Once you dive in its fine)
(-) Never loose control of emotions
(-) Dont make it more complex than need be
please help me make my list longer!

[Cain]

You don't need to make so many threads. This is your fourth one on the same subject.

But to answer your question, do as I said in two other threads. Tell her you like her and that you want to stay in contact. That's all you have to do. If she likes you she'll want to stay in contact too.

[Nolandanicerguy]

OK, I put that in the list--I forgot I had that information--I will dig those back up... I forgot to do that.
The reason I had made so many threads was becuase I needed to find a format that is easy to record and remember. a bulleted list is an obvious solution, so from here I probably will disregard from making any more threads on this topic, sorry I made so many. I just forget sometimes, too.

[biketa]

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Thanks a lot!