How to get a girl in the mood

[depressedBOY]

what do you guys do to usually get the girl into the mood for a orgasm. just inserting the penis doesnt cut it. any suggestions

[TAVS]

Ever heard of a term called foreplay?

[thinker]

Sounds like this is new to you...

I would read as much as you can on FOREPLAY... women usually prefer about an hour or so of touching, kissing, cuddling, fooling around before any actual sexual contact... I actually LOVE foreplay too, but I guess that is atypical for men...

I am more concerned that you are not ready for this... How old are you? How long have you been with this girl? Are you SURE she is ready for this step? Sure, there's a first time for everything, but I don't want you to get into anything over your head that you will regret later. Take the time to really know if this is a wise decision; there is ALWAYS a risk for stds/pregnancy no matter what form of contraception you use; are you prepared to deal with an unexpected crisis?

Anyways, to keep on subject, may I suggest an erotic massage; use oils and smooth music and candlelight and TAKE YOUR TIME. You can't just strip her and stick it in; women take a long time to get aroused and get into their bodies. Start everything soft and slow, and read her signals and ASK HER what feels good and if she wants more and what she wants, etc. This should be completely mutual and a unifying act of love; if you only want to get laid, then this is not something you should be doing.

[vashti]

How old are you, depressedboy? Because giving orgasms to women is a man's work.

[TAVS]

How old are you, depressedboy? Because giving orgasms to women is a man's work.

So that's my problem.......

[thinker]

How old are you, depressedboy? Because giving orgasms to women is a man's work.

Heh... and all this time I thought you guys knew what you were doing... huh...

[lilwing89]

How old are you, depressedboy? Because giving orgasms to women is a man's work.

i must be a man, then... lol

[King Zarathu]

Erm... a kid this young doesn't need that kind of advice other than this:


Use your penis for your hand, nothing else.

[Junket]

what do you guys do to usually get the girl into the mood for a orgasm. just inserting the penis doesnt cut it. any suggestions

Ask this guy:

[Gigabitch]

Try putting on a condom so she's not terrified about getting pregnant.

[derm]

Try putting on a condom so she's not terrified about getting pregnant.

1-3 hrs of foreplay before you ever get your dick near her, the more foreplay the more she will be aroused. Then when you finally get to the intercourse she'll be so turned on and horney that she'll orgasm so bad she'll drive her fingernails right through your back. Well at least my gal used!

[dono]

then u'll be dead. cool.

[lilwing89]

1-3 hrs of foreplay before you ever get your dick near her, the more foreplay the more she will be aroused. Then when you finally get to the intercourse she'll be so turned on and horney that she'll orgasm so bad she'll drive her fingernails right through your back. Well at least my gal used!

this reminds me of a story my best friend told me lol. to make a long story short, it was this dorky kid who was in our gym class and he was changing one day and everyone noticed the fingernail marks all the way down his chest lmao.

and i usually dont have to arouse my gf to get her in the mood. that almost sounds like molestation....... my gf usually starts kissing my neck and grabbing my crotch when shes horny and asks me if im horny. she also giggles alot.

[blue toxin]

Play some Marvin Gaye - "Let's get it on."

[Man43]

Depressedboy

I'm no expert but I have learned 1 thing.

Make sure that you love the woman your making love to, because if you honestly put her enjoyment first and let her know that she is special, then she will orgasm, because you'll make it happen!

I think that the human brain is the biggest sex organ, and love the ultimate aphrodisiac.

Dude, std's are nasty SO BE CAREFULL.

Or maybe I'm just full of it, you decide!